“Obliger" pretty well says it all. When someone asks you do something, doing it can become a top priority over the important stuff. And when you get "Obliger" done, today's odds are the asker will tell you that's not what they wanted! And, unfortunately, they are not standing on that trap door over your alligator pool!
I’m finding that I’m not having the time to get the things done I want to do which is frustrating and is making me angry… like another Bruce you won’t like me when I’m angry. Combine that with being an introvert who needs some solitary time to recharge… not a good combination.
Interesting -- I took the quiz and I am an Obliger also. I didn't really feel that way while taking the test, but reading the results after seems spot on.
“Obliger" pretty well says it all. When someone asks you do something, doing it can become a top priority over the important stuff. And when you get "Obliger" done, today's odds are the asker will tell you that's not what they wanted! And, unfortunately, they are not standing on that trap door over your alligator pool!
I’m finding that I’m not having the time to get the things done I want to do which is frustrating and is making me angry… like another Bruce you won’t like me when I’m angry. Combine that with being an introvert who needs some solitary time to recharge… not a good combination.
https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/the-four-tendencies-quiz/obliger/
Just another one of those trendy personality tests. Like the old Meyer-Briggs or the 4-MAT system used by some in teaching.
Interesting -- I took the quiz and I am an Obliger also. I didn't really feel that way while taking the test, but reading the results after seems spot on.